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  • 高贵的灵魂总会与现实保持一定距离
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    教师这个群体虽然不能和记者那样以博客为生,但是博客群体里的教师可以说很多都是闪耀着光辉的。 北京四中校长的博客就是一个代表。读到这样的博客,确实为这样的好校长感到由衷的敬佩。 尊师,其实要从老师尊敬自己开始。老师,这个知识分子的“臭老九” 群体就是要保持一种知识分子的“高贵”,让学生的心灵不要过早的受到“铜钱”的腐蚀。 家教,家长红包之类的事情,少些,再少些! 只有教师把自己的做人问题做好了,全社会的素质才能真正提高,虽然这还需要很多有“素质”的家长的配合。... Read More >
  • Soundview 评选的30年最佳30本商业图书
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    可喜的是,大部分的图书我都已经拜读过中文版,有些还陈列在自己的书架上。当然,不足之处是这30本图书在我看来并不真正的具有代表性。 This list includes titles by such well-known authors as Michael Porter, Jack Trout, Tom Peters, John Maxwell, Rosabeth Moss Kanter, and Peter Senge, plus other top authors. The 30th Anniversary list, containing the top book of each of the past thirty years, includes: Working Smart by Michael LeBoeuf On a Clear Day You Can See General Motors by J. Patrick Wright Competitive Strategy by Michael Porter Positioning by Al Ries & Jack Trout In Search of Excellence by Tom Peters & Robert Waterman The Change Masters by Rosabeth Moss Kanter Competitive Advantage by Michael Porter Service America! by Karl Albrecht & Ron Zemke Moments of Truth by Jan Carlzon Thriving on Chaos by Tom Peters When Giants Learn to Dance by Rosabeth Moss Kanter The Borderless World by Kenichi Ohmae The Fifth Discipline by Peter Senge You've Got to Be Believed to Be Heard by Bert Decker Reengineering the Corporation by Michael Hammer & James Champy Competing for the Future by Gary Hamel & C.K. Prahalad Built to Last by Jim Collins and Jerry Porras Leading Change by John Kotter The World on Time by James Wetherbe Peter Drucker on the Profession of Management by Peter Drucker Jack Welch and the GE Way by Robert Slater First Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham The Customer Revolution by Patricia Seybold Execution by Larry Bossidy & Ram Charan Who Says Elephants Can't Dance? by Louis Gerstner Crucial Confrontations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan and Al Switzler Blink by Malcolm Gladwell The 360 Degree Leader by John Maxwell What Got You Here Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith The Necessary Revolution by Peter Senge ... Read More >
  • 15种性格导致职场不成功
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    按照佛教的观点,人生其实是一个痛苦的过程,因此需要修行来消除。对于现代白领而言,职场是人生这个大过程中相处时间最多的一部过程。每个人或多或少都会有以下性格中一种或几种,时时的提醒自己,那么脱离“苦海”的日子就不远了。 快乐的职场实际上就是避免这些不好的性格。 知足  只要有吃有穿,腹饱体暖,就感到满足。这种人对生活没有一点欲求,怎么会创造富有与成功呢? 自满 自己的总是最好的,甚至认为自己应该成为别人效仿的标准。这种人不屑于与外界来往,他们根本不知道社会进步到什么程度,怎么可能有更高的追求呢? 保守  这种人的生活全凭过去的经验,没人走过的路他不敢走,没人做过的事他不敢做。这种人也许早已经看到自己的现状不如别人,甚至差得很远。但他们不是去创造财富以迎头赶上,而总是想到马失前蹄。因此,新的东西没有得到,旧的东西反而丢失了。 怯懦  保守性格的人具有怯懦的因素,但这里所指的怯懦是另一种人。这种人主要的特点不是恋旧,而是胆小,总是怕这怕那。哪一种成功不冒风险呢? 懒惰  一是身体懒惰,二是大脑懒惰。身体懒惰的人光想不干,大脑懒惰的人光干不想。身体懒惰的人每次想的都是不同的问题,说不准还会有些新的思想和念头,但 什么都不干;大脑懒惰的人一辈子干的都是同样的工作,但从来不考虑改变什么。这两种懒惰一般很少出现在一个人身上,因为身体和大脑同时懒惰,结局只有死 亡。 孤僻  前边已经说过,赚钱就是把别人的钱变成自己的钱。不与人打交道的人,怎么可能赚到钱呢? 自以为是  自以为是的人,一般都处理不好与周围人的关系。与人处不好关系,就不能形成长久的合作。与人合作不好,怎么能成大事? 狭隘  一是心胸狭隘,二是视野狭隘,三是知识结构狭隘。狭隘的人一般都有严重的自恋情结,这种性格的人,也是很难与人和社会相处的,并且最容易伤害人,是天生的失败者。 自私  不想奉献,只想占便宜,这种人最终不会获得成功和财富,而只能拥有自己——形影相吊,顾影自怜。 骄傲  有一点成绩就忘乎所以,这种人也许会成功,但很快又会丧失他获得的一切。这种人最容易犯错误,每个错误都是他失败的积累。这种人的心理最脆弱,既经不起成功的喜悦,又经不起失败的打击。 狂妄  这种人在哪儿都不受欢迎,尽管他的口气很大,能力也许很强,但是一定会招来周围的人群起而攻之,以致丢盔卸甲,兵败乌江,最终一无所有,成为可笑的唐吉诃德。 消极  消极的人往往给人一种不慕名利的虚假印象,但其实是极度消极的心态。什么都不想,什么也不去做。即使有再强的能力,终生也将一事无成。更可怕的是他却自认为很聪明,什么都能看透,因而看不起别人。他最容易老,晚景也最凄凉,因为他有能力敏锐地感受贫困和失败。 轻信  容易轻信的人,往往给人一种有品格有修养的错觉,其实轻信是他的人性弱点。比如轻信朋友、下属、合作对象;轻信自己的智慧、知识;或轻信权力、机遇、 经验……甚至有人轻信神灵……要知道,做生意赚钱是一种个人目的非常明确的事,也是一种以利益为根本的事,同时又是冒风险的事。所以,轻信的性格最容易把 利益拱手让给他人,或把成功交给失误。 多疑   轻信的另一面是过分的多疑,这是商家之大忌。多疑的最大特点是把能够帮助自己的力量冷落在一边,从而形成孤军奋战的艰苦局面,以致使成功离自己越来越遥远。 冲动  冲动的人往往多情。一冲动起来就随便许诺,信口开河。但许诺不能兑现,会极大地损害自己的信誉;而一旦轻率地泄露了自己的经营秘密,别人就会乘虚而人。冲动还有一个缺点是轻易做决策。这种轻率的行为本身,很可能就是失败——根本不需要等到结局发生。 ... Read More >
  • 熊市中的机会在中国
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    读到 Business Week 上的这篇文章,如果被其言中的话,那么中国将走出一波独立的行情。 但愿今天的行情是一个起点。 With markets falling around the world, is there any reason to invest globally anymore? We've seen correlations [between the U.S. and international markets] tighten up, as they tend to do at the end of a decline. But there will be longer-term opportunities in emerging markets and China, where the long-term case remains favorable. China is not in a secular bear market. It has been in a cyclical bear market within a secular bull market. While markets around the world will move in one direction when we get the next move higher, the upside will be much greater in the markets in secular uptrend, like China's.... Read More >
  • 五个 PHP 编程好习惯
    from 自由,开源 by Albert
    看过一些 PHP 程序员的程序,好心的一些建议都被各种堂皇的理由拒绝。读到这篇文章,甚感一个良好的程序员之难求。 良好的命名,杜绝含糊的名字,函数、变量的命名要简洁而且能反映含义。 保持短小的函数,杜绝很长的函数、类,尽量让每一个函数只做一件事情。 做好文档,保持良好的文档习惯,对函数和类做好说明。 错误处理,尽量利用错误处理来保证代码的强壮性,而且能增加可读性和可理解性。 不要拷贝/粘贴,把代码加上参数后成为可重用的函数。 ... Read More >
  • 诱散行情
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    在美国行情的支持下,今天的行情高开似乎要创出一片新天地,然而收盘果然如所料的那样,空头的压力还是太大。 能够收在 2000 点上也算运气了。 这个市场永远是机构和散户之间的博弈。所以,散户要在这场博弈中取胜,必须透彻,空明,有一颗不贪婪的心智去领悟这个市场。 今天的行情放量走出一根长上影线,明摆了2000点并不是一个可以轻松攻克的点位。大部分的钢铁,煤炭,银行,保险都走出长上影线的行情,就算是传说中的汇金接盘吧,还要看三到六个月。 而散户如果做短线,今天就是卖点,等回探到30日线的 1860 点左右,可再次进入。而从中长线而言,如果60日线的 1970 点能经受住考验的话,一月份可以择机进入了。... Read More >
  • 许倬云自选集 ; 许倬云著
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
    读历史,还是蛮枯燥的,能把历史读得看小说一样,恐怕要向许老先生学习了。 先从三字经里的的那段历史叙述开始吧,然后是上下五千年。 四书,五经,二十四史,长长的书单!... Read More >
  • 聪明父母只需教孩子三件事(转帖)
    from 宁静,思远,志在千里 by lena
    聪明父母只需教孩子三件事(转帖) 父母对待孩子无外乎三种情况:一是事事管、时时管,做了很多事,效果却不好;二是什么都不管,什么都不做,放任自流,不闻不问,结果更不好;三是也管但不全管,做得不多,但都切中要害,孩子成长一帆风顺。杰出的父母从来都选择“有所为有所不为”,更明确地说,只做三件事。   第一件事:培养良好的亲子关系   好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好,对孩子的教育就容易成功;什么时候与孩子关系不好,对孩子的教育就容易失败。而建立良好的亲子关系,其关键在于“定位”:   1、不当“法官”,学做“律师”   有些父母看到孩子出了问题,便迫不及待地当起了“法官”,这是很危险的。   孩子的内心世界丰富多彩,父母要积极地影响与教育孩子,不了解其内心世界便无从谈起。而了解孩子的第一要诀是呵护其自尊,维护其权利,成为其信赖和尊敬的朋友。   即父母对待孩子,要像“律师”对待自己的当事人一样,了解其内心需求,并始终以维护其合法权利为惟一宗旨。   2、不当“裁判”,学做“拉拉队”   在人生竞技场,孩子只能自己去努力。父母既无法替代孩子,也不该自作主张去当“裁判”,而应该给予孩子一种保持良好竞技状态的力量,即“拉拉队”的力量。这样更能帮助孩子建立自信心,而这正是家庭教育的核心任务。   父母做孩子的“拉拉队”,既要善于发现和赞美孩子,还要引导孩子正确面对失败,在挫折前做孩子的战友。   3、不当“驯兽师”,学做“镜子”   孩子只有认识自己才能战胜自己,但他们通常只能依据他人的反馈来认识自己,这时父母的“反馈”作用即镜子的作用就很重要了。   不做“驯兽师”,学做“镜子”,才能帮助孩子提高自我意识,才能让孩子不害怕父母的“权威”,转而和父母沟通。   教育是三分教,七分等。“等一等”是很有用的。比如我们被蚊子叮一下,不管它,很快就会没事,若总去挠,却要很长时间才能好。原因就是人体有一定的自我治愈功能,被蚊子叮一下自己很快就会好,施加外力只会适得其反。   教育也是这个道理。停下来,等一等,给孩子倾诉的机会,和孩子有效地沟通,不用教育就能解决问题。   第二件事:培养孩子的良好习惯   习惯决定孩子的命运,再也没有什么比习惯养成更重要了。父母如果不注重培养孩子的良好习惯,无疑是在葬送孩子美好的未来。   1、一切从习惯培养开始   养成教育是管一辈子的教育。智育是良好的思维习惯,德育是细小的行为习惯,素质教育更加体现在人的细小的行为上。   大量事实证明,习惯是一种顽强的力量,可以主宰人的一生。孩子的一切都从习惯培养开始。   2、习惯养成绝非一日之功   习惯是个大问题,是大智慧。良好习惯的养成绝非一日之功,其主要原则是:低起点,严要求,小步子,快节奏,多活动,求变化,快反馈,勤矫正。   习惯养成关键在头三天,决定在一个月。父母要充分尊重孩子的权利,让孩子在习惯养成中发挥主人作用。   3、通过习惯培养铸造品格   教育犹如海上行船,必须按正确的航线行驶,否则,船越大越有触礁沉没的危险。   人的品质,决定了人的发展方向。家庭教育的一个核心任务就是培养孩子成为一个真正的人。但人格的培养问题通常很难落实到具体操作上来。   不过,研究者发现,习惯与人格相辅相成,习惯影响人格,人格更会影响习惯。正派、诚实、责任心、爱心、合作精神、讲究效率等品格都可以通过习惯培养来铸造。 第三件事:引导孩子学会学习   吸引孩子热爱学习、引导孩子学会学习是父母的一项重要职责,也是父母的真正魅力所在。   1、孩子厌学是有原因的   放任不管,任其潇洒;乱管瞎管,种瓜得豆;唠叨数落,肆意打骂;代替包办,制造“机器”……父母若采取如此种种不明智的做法,只会使孩子越来越不爱学习。   孩子不爱学习只是表面现象,背后一定有原因:是没有养成良好的学习习惯?是没有找到孩子最擅长的方面?是没有科学用脑?是父母阻碍了孩子的“玩中学”的天性?是孩子没有意识到学习是他自己的事情……找到背后的原因,才可能帮助孩子走出厌学的阴影。   2、孩子的求知欲和学习潜能是可以激发的   孩子缺乏求知欲,通常不是父母的影响或者严格要求不够,而是阻塞了孩子的兴趣。   兴趣(好奇心)、梦想、成就感、质疑、感恩、发奋、发愤等都是疏通和启发孩子求知欲的通道。而对于孩子来说,所谓竞争优势就是潜能得到有效的开发而已。心情、开窍、暗示、遐想、激励、计划是激发孩子学习潜能的六大原则。   潜能开发虽没有绝对的“时间表”,但也有步骤,比如建立目标、控制情绪、磨砺意志、专注于一点等都是非常重要的。   3、孩子考第一是有方法的   “爱学”是“会学”的前提,而“会学”是“爱学”的保证,“会学”才能“学好”。   孩子要想考第一,必须要掌握一些具有决定性作用的好方法,如:按计划完成、认真写字、慢慢看课本、整理错题、随手笔记、无私帮助同学、高效率考试、自由自在地作文等。   现在很多父母在教育孩子的问题上步入了一个新的误区,即盲信盲从甚至痴迷于所谓成功教子的家教经验,但这些经验听着容易,做起来难。因为它们没有“可迁移性”,如果只是一味的克隆、模仿,不但不能落实到自己孩子的身上,反而容易“邯郸学步”,适得其反。   最有用的真东西是需要静下心来思考、提炼的。教育孩子并没有父母想像的那样复杂,抓好了亲子关系、习惯培养、学习这三件大事,父母成为杰出的父母,孩子成为杰出的孩子,就都不是遥远的梦幻了。  ... Read More >
  • 1202 Obama announces his national security team
    from 宁静,思远,志在千里 by lena
    Obama announces his national security team President-elect Barack Obama takes questions from reporters during a news conference in Chicago, Monday, Dec. 1, 2008, with, from left to right: Attorney General-designate Eric Holder; Homeland Security Secretary-designate Janet Napolitano; Defense Secretary Robert Gates; Vice President-elect Joe Biden; Secretary of State-designate Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton, D-N.Y.; National Security Adviser-designate Ret. Marine Gen. James Jones; and United Nations Ambassador-designate Susan Rice. U.S. Democratic presidential nominee Barack Obama (R) and Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton attend a money raising meeting in New York, the United States, in this file photo taken on July 10, 2008. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama nominated Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton for Secretary of State at a news conference in Chicago on Monday. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama (R) stands with his national security team nominees Eric Holder (Attorney General), Arizona Governor Janet Napolitano (Head of Homeland Security), Robert Gates (continuing as Secretary of Defense), Vice President-elect Joe Biden, Senator Hillary Clinton (Secretary of State), retired Marine General James Jones (National Security Advisor) and Susan Rice (U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations) (L-R) during a news conference in Chicago December 1, 2008. WASHINGTON, Dec. 1 (Xinhua) -- U.S. President-elect Barack Obama announced on Monday his national security team, including former first lady Hillary Rodham Clinton as secretary of states and incumbent Defense Secretary Robert Gates, who would retain his post. "America must be strong at home and abroad," Obama told a news conference in his transition office headquarters in Chicago, Illinois, drawing a full stop to a month- long speculations on his cabinet members. "To succeed, we must pursue a new strategy that power: our military and diplomacy, our intelligence and law enforcement, our economy and the power of our moral example," said the president-elect with all national security team members announced standing beside him. "They share my pragmatism about the use of power, and my sense of purpose about America's role as a leader in the world," he said. Obama referred his former presidential rival Clinton as "a friend, a colleague, a source of counsel and as a campaign opponent" who possesses "an extraordinary intelligence and toughness." Clinton's appointment to the top diplomatic official, as Obama said, is "a sign to friend and foe of the seriousness of my commitment to renew American diplomacy and restore our alliance." Echoing Obama's remarks, Clinton told the press conference that she would make the United States a new force for positive change and work with the global community to solve crises around the world. "The American people have demanded not just a new direction at home, but a new effort to renew America's standing in the world as a force for positive change," she said after being nominated. Gates, the political independent who was nominated by the Republican government led by President George W. Bush as the defense chief, became the only current cabinet member who would retain his post. "He earned the respect of members of Congress on both sides of the aisle for his pragmatism and competence," Obama said of his choice for the Pentagon chief. "He knows that we need a sustainable national security strategy -- and that includes a bipartisan consensus at home." In a brief presentation, Gates vowed to do his duties as the country is engaging in two wars and said he is honored to "continue to serve our country" and "will be honored to serve President-elect Obama." Obama also named retired Marine Gen. Jim Jones as his White House national security advisor and Susan Rice as the next U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations. Jones, the only Republican who has been officially recruited to the next cabinet, was described by Obama as the one "uniquely suited to be a strong and skilled national security advisor" due to his understanding of "the connection between energy and national security" and experience in working on the frontlines of global instability. Obama settled his long-term closest advisor Rice in the UN for her knowledge that the global challenges the U.S. face demand global institutions. The former assistant secretary of state for African affairs noted that the United States "must invest in our common humanity" to accomplish America's security with help of "capable partners and effective international institutions." The team, also including Arizona governor Janet Napolitano as the homeland security secretary and Eric Holder as the next attorney general. Holder, as the first African-American head of Justice Department, promised to revitalize the department that has been haunted by scandals during Bush's administration, and make sure "American people remain secure and that the great constitutional guarantees that define us as a nation are truly valued." To lead the second biggest department comprising 170,000 staff from 22 federal agencies, Napolitano focused her future job on "protecting our homeland with constant vigilance and relentless work to prevent terrorist attacks" and planning "carefully and thorough" on the country's domestic response to all hazards. It was the second batch of key cabinet members Obama has released since his successful presidential election after he presented the economic team last week. The new administration will take office on Jan. 20 as Obama is sworn in to the White House as the 44th U.S. president. http://english.people.com.cn/90001/90777/90852/6544192.html Obama Announces New Economic Board ... 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  • 穆旦传 ; 陈伯良著 ***
    from 和谐,自由 by Albert
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